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Community Reacts to Sad News of Dean LaLima's Passing

Grimaldi's manager struck and killed in an apparent hit and run early Sunday, according to police.

Those mourning the tragic loss of Dean LaLima all agree on one thing: Grimaldi's Pizza will never be the same without him.

Mr. LaLima, long time host and manager of the poplar Garden City restaurant, was struck and killed in Williston Park early Sunday in what police are describing as a hit and run.

Mr. LaLima, 41, was found lying in the street at about 4:10 a.m. at the intersection of Syracuse Street and Broad Street in Williston Park after being struck by an unknown vehicle traveling northbound on Broad Street, according to Nassau County police. He was pronounced deceased by a Nassau County Ambulance Advanced Medical Technician at 4:20 a.m.

The tragedy is the second to hit Grimaldi's in less than a year; Grimaldi's owner Russell Ciolli, a best friend of Mr. LaLima's, died suddenly in November 2011. He was 39.

Althea Robinson, executive director of the Garden City Chamber of Commerce, said Dean was heartbroken at Russ’ passing a little less than a year ago. "And while it’s a sad thought, the two buddies are together now," she added.

Michael and Randye Bernot remember Mr. LaLima as a "great guy and a great friend." They posted this on Patch Monday: "We met at an establishment that he used to waiter at, and we became good friends. We would stay in contact and go out and see each other over the years, and to wake up and read this obituary made me feel completely sick to my stomach. Awful news. Terrible. Our thoughts are with all of your family and friends. May your soul rest in peace. Another good person taken from this world way too soon!!"

Sue Eigl, senior real estate specialist at The Donnelly Group on Franklin Avenue, said she and the Garden City community have once again lost a wonderful man and friend in Dean, or as he was known by friends, Dino.

"Shortly after the untimely passing of Russ, Grimaldi's owner, another warm and welcoming part of all that makes Grimaldi's a one-of-a-kind 'Cheers' like restaurant in our town has been taken too soon," Eigl said. "You will be missed by all who loved you!"

Mindy F. Wolfle, director of marketing for on Franklin Avenue, said she didn't know Mr. LaLima personally but as a customer of Grimaldi's he greeted her like "an old friend" every time she frequented the restaurant.

"There were no strangers entering Grimaldi’s when Dean was there with his welcoming smile and warm words," Wolfe said. "It’s heartbreaking that tragedy has once again struck the Grimaldi’s 'family.'"

Trustee Dennis Donnelly added, "I only knew Dean as the manager and host of Grimaldi's ... There was never a time my family dined there that Dean didn't come over to inquire if there was anything we needed. Dean was a sincere, hard working attribute not only to the restaurant but to Garden City as well. My and my family's prayers go out to Dean and his entire family."

Garden City Patch Facebook fans added these kind words:

Denise Kershaw: "What a sweetheart of a man. He will be missed."

Maria Russo Ingrassia: "Such a tragedy .. He will be missed."

Visiting is Wednesday 7-9 p.m. and Thursday 2-5 and 7-9 p.m., Cassidy Funeral Home, 156 Willis Ave., Mineola. Funeral Mass to be held Friday at 10 a.m. at St. Aidan's Church. Entombment to follow at Holy Rood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials to North Shore Animal League are appreciated.

Share your memories of Dean LaLima in the comments section below.

Roger Chaffee August 13, 2012 at 08:07 pm
My family and I came from as far as Amityville to dine at Grimaldi"s. Dino made it so comfortable there. He would hug us all and greet us with that warm smile of his. He will be missed greatly. The Chaffee family
Sue Eigl August 14, 2012 at 03:38 pm
According to Channel 12 news today police suspect a late model C Class Mercedes to be the vehicle that struck Dean. So I believe the police will catch this person or people!
Billy evans August 14, 2012 at 04:45 pm
Dean was a super awesome friend to me and my wife he was a brother i didnt have .. we use to see him every weekend and he greeted every one one who came to grimaldis from 8 months old to 80 with a big warming hug and kiss and you could feel it was real he was one of the realest people i ever met and i dont think i will ever meet any one like dean ... dean we love you Billy and aggy R.i .P good friend
Billy evans August 14, 2012 at 04:52 pm
Please god help the police catch this evil person or persons who took away our friend .. no body deserves to have this happen to them and then for it to happen to such a good no great no ever better an awesome guy their wasnt anything dean wouldnt do help another human being out and for something like this to happen cant be accepted FIND THEM ...
George August 14, 2012 at 05:00 pm
What a guy to have in out town! As the earlier post mentions, Hugs all around. What other establishments have created relationships the way he did....our family misses him already. RIP Dean.....we didn't get enough of you...
Sue Eigl August 14, 2012 at 11:18 pm
Billy you are so right Dean was an amazingan and charmed everyone met!! Whoever did this this disgusting act of leaving an injured person in the road should just turn themselves in. I believe the police will figure this out. Give this man and his.family the peace they deserve and come forward and admit what you did!! Dean's friend
Sue
Matthew Hogan (Editor) August 15, 2012 at 05:52 am
Folks,
An arrest has been made in connection with the accident. Read the story here: http://patch.com/A-wWDt -- Matthew Hogan Associate Regional Editor
Paula Gottlieb Herman August 15, 2012 at 06:57 pm
Dean's warmth, outgoing manner, and hospitality are just some of the traits we will miss dearly! Our Pizza Making Parties at Grimaldi's, since September 2007, were made more special because of him. We are doing a party there on Saturday, and I can't image not seeing him there to greet us, to get a hug, and to hear, "What's happenin', kid?" I do hope that Dean and Russell have that big reunion in the sky! With our deepest sympathies, Paula Gottlieb Herman, LilChefs.com Special Events.
Jim Loughlin August 15, 2012 at 10:04 pm
Dean was one of the first people I met when I moved to Garden City 7 years ago and from the start he treated me like family every time I saw him. He was one heck of a guy and certainly deserved so much more out of life. When I heard the news I felt as if I got kicked in the stomach. Dino, you will missed greatly and always be in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in Peace my friend...Jim L.
Margie Cantara August 16, 2012 at 05:32 pm
My husband and I will always remember Dino's cheerful demeanor whenever we went to Grimaldis. He did not deserve to leave this earth so horribly and alone. God grant peace to his family and may Dino always watch over them from above. Margie and Joe Cantara
Roberta Feeney August 17, 2012 at 01:15 am
I am honored to have known Dean. Dean's warmth and kindness and character were admirable. He was an angel always there to help. Dean was my son Jesse's best friend, and my son as well as many others are heartbroken and devastated. Dean was a son, brother, friend and an amazing person. He will be sorely missed. The heartless murderer who mowed him down unmercifully needs to be brought to justice and not get away with this. Roberta Feeney

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